Stop cheating yourself of love

Stop cheating yourself of love A year from now you may wish you had started today Today you woke up with the desire to finally make a change in your social and dating life. You felt motivated, inspired and ready to take the first step. You decided to take yourself out to where you could

Why can’t my love find me?

Why can’t my love find me? When it comes to finding a beautiful relationship, there is something that we can easily forget. You see what you give to yourself, you can give to another and what you don’t give to yourself, you can’t give to another. The best thing you can do is to develop

Insights from one of our male members

Insights from one of our male members A guest blog from one of our male members Meeting the opposite sex can be a tough and tricky business. Anyone who has lived long enough knows that. Even as young as four or five years old at kindergarten boys get into trouble for pushing a girl over

My #1 Most Important Ever Dating Tip Let me give you a tip about dating and friendship that I have learned through 16 years of helping thousands of singles. There is one quality that, above all determines success. Is it wealth, intellectual  qualities, physical attractiveness? No, none of the above. There is a quality that

How do you react to “kind”?

How do you react to “kind”? A lot of the focus on dating is steering us away from true intimacy. There is a lot of importance placed on superficial things like looks, playing games and gimmicks to attract the best looking people. This advice leads us to feeling insecure ourselves and encourages us to be

Forgive yourself, you’re smarter now Our friends and family are telling us to “move on”. “It’s time to get back out there”, they say. Leave the past and your dating mistakes behind. I would like to suggest that it isn’t the ex who treated you badly you need to forgive. It isn’t the former partner

Where are you going? Who is going with you? The words of Neale Donald Walsch who became well know from his writing of the series of books called “Conversation with God” are resonating with me at the moment. In order to hopefully pass on some useful information, I have sought out his writings on the

Why don’t I get her number?

Why don’t I get her number? Understanding women can be difficult at any time. Understanding why she doesn’t give you her number can be complicated, but it’s best to uncover the truth and work through it to get a different outcome. Here are some things to consider about yourself. If you identify with any of

The Real Reason Relationships Fail

The Real Reason Relationships Fail It is a common belief that the most common causes of the breakdown of a relationship are adultery, financial problems or irreconcilable difference. They are really symptoms of a deeper problem. There’s no denying those problems are real, but if we dig a little deeper we will find the real

A new romance? It’s never too late No matter whether you’re 35 or 75, it’s never too late to fall in love again. Just ask some of our members who have been surprised how they have found love and it has taken them by surprise. listen to the stories of people’s lives when they join