“Your future depends on many things, but mostly on you” ~Frank Tyger That’s hard to hear isn’t it? We can’t really blame our parents, our upbringing, the economy or anyone else. It would be so much easier if we could. We’ve all heard people complaining that they didn’t  have the upbringing or the opportunities. Possibly

Do we still enjoy courting?

We have enjoyed courting from the beginning of time. But today there can be a general lack of trust and appreciation. Maybe this is caused by being hurt too many times. The courtship guidelines have become blurred. Men love to court ladies by calling for the date and holding the door open. But when ladies

Have you ever reached out to someone you’d like to catch up with again, or someone you admire and would love to get to know? You called and left a phone message or sent off a text or email. You checked for a response….and waited…and waited, but nothing. Who do they think they are? You

If you are new to the dating scene, you may not be sure of your self-confidence. And you may be wondering how important is it in attracting a suitable partner anyway. According to many studies it is very important. Get my weekly blog here We are not talking about arrogance, snobbishness or believing you are

“No” is just a word. It doesn’t mean anything else about you! If you asked someone for a contact to catch up again and they said “No,” don’t make it mean anything about you. There are many reasons why they may have declined. Most often it is because of something in their life. Perhaps they

Do you ever feel as though you would like to meet someone who gets you? You know the feeling when you meet someone new and you really have the feeling that this person is listening and actually hearing what you are saying. You feel as though they are, if even for a moment, stepping into

“I’ve been single for a few years now. My friends have set me up a few times. I’ve tried dating all sorts of people. I’m starting to think that my ideal partner doesn’t exist. Who would want to date me anyway?” Does this sound like you? It’s easy for people to say to you “Just

If you notice that you are not really looking forward to the Christmas season, then something is trying to tell you to make a shift and reclaim this time of year. Your life might not exactly look like the TV ads of happy families…most of them don’t. But you can decide you are going to

The one question singles hate the most

The one question singles hate the most! It’s the question that can turn any calm, confident rational single into a rage and knock your confidence for six. And Christmas gatherings are the perfect opportunity for your Aunt, Uncle or distant cousin to toss that question at you. “Why are you still single?” It can make

New Year is the traditional time for new resolutions. But sooner is always better when it comes to making changes for the better in your life. Why not start today to meet a partner? There are still almost five weeks left in this year. Just think of what you could achieve in five weeks if