Dating getting you down? How to stay positive. Dating shouldn’t be too hard in 2018. There are so many apps and online dating sites, meet ups and singles bars. Then why does it seem to be so challenging? There is a French saying “Trop de choix tue le choix” (too much choice kills the choice).

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Choose a new empowering perspective Many of our members have found themselves unexpectedly single.  Perhaps, like me, they lost someone through illness. Or their relationship ended because they grew apart. In any of these situations, there is a period of grief. The end of any relationship means the end of a whole phase of your

What The Foxtel Guy Could Teach Us

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Single and out of practise

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Are you too busy to prioritise your dating life? “Each day is a new opportunity. I chose to make this day a great one.” Wise words from the inspirational Louise Hay. I’m always interested to hear the excuses that people use for not taking positive action to live their life at their highest level. If

Men- you need to know this

Men- you need to  know this Do you want that woman to give you her number and actually catch up with you again? Well, you need to get her permission before you even ask. Talk with her about the things you are passionate about. Find out hers, and find ones that you both share. This

Dating worries?…not if you follow this simple plan You are setting out of your house on an evening out. Are you excited and looking forward to having some fun and connecting with new interesting people? Or, does the little voice in your head sabotage you before you even arrive by whispering that you won’t meet

Millions of people have happy relationships- why shouldn’t you? If you have been single for a while, perhaps you have registered on an online dating site. Or maybe you have been out with your girlfriends or mates hoping to meet someone. You got excited at first when you received a lot of messages on the

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Men, create attraction and relationship

Men, create attraction and relationship Have you ever noticed, that internet dating sites out there….they show you a lot of photos of single women… But how do you get to speak to them or meet them? And for most single men, you send a message, but don’t get a reply? Or, don’t have the chance