Maybe you’ve just come out of a long relationship and you’re not ready for dating just yet. Most of your friends are married or in relationships. They worry about you and try to make suggestions on where to go to meet a new partner. You are getting your self together, taking up some new interests,

There are some attitudes that are proven to give us a higher likelihood of finding a long-term partner. If we embrace these attitudes, it could very well mean that we will find a “Mr or Ms Right’ a lot sooner. The attitudes that are included in this category are:     When you meet someone with

Find a partner who calls you beautiful/handsome instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on them, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the one who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to

Are you prioritising your dating life?

What is the most important area of your life? Is your love life as important as watching your favourite show on TV or your 40-50 hour a week job? Sometimes I think it must not be. I know you’re busy and have your priorities. But if you were at the end of your life and

Meet our 11 out of 10’s at dinner

I received an email from a lady this week. She is attractive, focused on her career and has good friends and family. Patricia (not real name) has been attracting men who are either boring intellectuals or smooth talkers with film star looks. She has big dreams but was ready to give up on finding her

Last week I wrote about how men and women are wired differently and how fear and shame can cause a loving close relationship to become disconnected. This interesting information is from a book called “Why women talk and men walk” by Patricia Love and Steven Stosny. Research and clinical experiences show that men and women clearly

Quite a few people have commented to me that they found my article late last year “How important to a man is a woman? very interesting. So here is some more of the relevant information I found so interesting myself in the book. This book sheds some light on how we break the connection we have

Here’s another good news story from our A Table for Six dinners. S told me she had dated a lot in her 20’s and felt there were plenty of guys to choose from. She settled down and married and was in her marriage for 20 odd years until it broke up for various reasons. She

We’ve all heard the saying “opposites attract”. It has always been an interesting one because we all know long term happy couples who seem to be opposites and others who seem to be very much alike. Well a report I have read in a phychology magazine does throw some light on the subject. According to

Great outcomes from our dinners

This week I decided to call one of our male members who wasn’t responding to invitations to dinner. I asked if he was dating, or just too busy to go to dinner. He replied that he is happily dating a lovely lady. I have learned to ask if they met at one of our dinners,