The most interesting guy she had met! Why?

One of my male members told me about this experience. He had only been talking to this woman for part of the time at dinner. She said “You are the most interesting man I’ve met lately.”  He was confused, he hadn’t told her very much about himself. He said “How is that possible?” It made

Dating life not working?

Dating life not working? Face what isn’t working in your dating life “Our lives improve only when we take chances…and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with ourselves.” ~Walter Anderson Is your dating life not working and you wish to be more successful, you have got to stop,

Attract The Perfect Partner For YOU!

Attract The Perfect Partner For YOU! Some people believe that to find a perfect partner, they need to find someone who shares the same interests, hobbies, falls within a certain age group or looks a certain way. Of course, nobody is perfect. Everyone has some flaws or baggage if they have lived a life. But

Procrastination is not your friend

Procrastination is not your friend “No matter how much we have achieved in any area of our lives, true fulfilment can only be found in one thing: the emotional quality of our personal relationships. ~Tony Robbins What do you think about that quote? It certainly rings true for me. Everyone wants to have financial security

Dating getting you down? How to stay positive. Dating shouldn’t be too hard in 2018. There are so many apps and online dating sites, meet ups and singles bars. Then why does it seem to be so challenging? There is a French saying “Trop de choix tue le choix” (too much choice kills the choice).

There’s never a better time than now to let love in For singles, every day represents a defining point. Your life can be astounding, or just another day. Life can be rich with adventure, love and experience. Or, it can be mundane and predictable. This drastic contrast is the end result of our thoughts, and

Choose a new empowering perspective

Choose a new empowering perspective Many of our members have found themselves unexpectedly single.  Perhaps, like me, they lost someone through illness. Or their relationship ended because they grew apart. In any of these situations, there is a period of grief. The end of any relationship means the end of a whole phase of your

Some universal truths about relationships I find it difficult to write about myself and my journey through grief and learning to live in a whole new world with out my partner Reg. My own life was not a tropic I included very often in my blogs. But, everything changed recently. And many have shared that

With courage, gratitude and acknowledging the beauty of each day First of all, I would like to give my heartfelt thanks to everyone who has sent messages of condolence on the passing of my partner Reg on 20 April. Your personal messages have been a comfort during a time of great upheaval as I come

Single and out of practise

Single and out of practise I speak with a lot of singles who are at different stages in their lives when it comes to relationships. They’ve had a variety of experiences in their lives, and they are working through dealing with them. It makes no difference; I’m still going to be someone who doesn’t listen