Gone are the days of vague, cryptic dating profiles (“just seeing what’s out there” – what does that even mean?!). Singles are done with the guessing games and are getting straight to the point.

In fact, “Looking for…” was Tinder’s most popular bio mention in 2024, proving that people are finally saying what they actually want - whether that’s a serious relationship, a casual connection, or a companion.

This bold new approach has a name: ‘Loud Looking’. It’s all about ditching the mixed signals and making your dating intentions loud and clear from the start.

A Shift Toward Transparency and Intentionality

Modern daters aren’t messing around anymore. According to Tinder’s 'Year in Swipe' report, here’s what singles are prioritising:

✅ Trustworthiness (40%) – No more flakey types.
✅ Physical attraction (35%) – A little chemistry for sparks! 
✅ Shared values (31%) – Because opposites don’t always attract.
✅ Emotional availability (30%) – No more dating someone who’s “not sure". 

People want real connections, not just another text that goes “Hey” and then disappears into the abyss.

Finding Joy in Small Connections: The ‘Nanoship’ Trend

If “loud looking” is the bold statement of dating, nanoships are the tiny moments that make it all worthwhile. These are low-pressure, low-stakes, micro-connections that brighten your day - without the drama.

Think of it as:
💛 Smiling at the cute person on the train.
💛 Sharing a laugh with a stranger at a café.
💛 A cheerful “good morning” from a friendly face on your morning walk.

Nanoships are about appreciating the little sparks that make life (and dating) fun. No expectations, no pressure—just good vibes.

‘Hopecore’: The Rise of Optimism in Dating

Forget doomscrolling and dating fatigue - hopecore is here to save the day! This trend is all about embracing positivity, trust, and loyalty in relationships.

People are ditching the cynicism and searching for that “golden retriever energy” in a partner - someone friendly, enthusiastic and optimistic.  Because let’s be real, the world is stressful enough - why not date someone who actually makes you feel good?

Dating with Purpose at A Table For Six

Here at A Table For Six, we LOVE seeing singles embrace authenticity, optimism, and real connections. Our events bring together like-minded people who are serious about meeting someone special—without the swiping, ghosting, or endless small talk.

What are you looking for...?  Ready to find your next nanoship, hopecore romance, or full-on love story? Register for dinner now! 🍽️💕