Maybe you’ve just come out of a long relationship and you’re not ready for dating just yet.
Most of your friends are married or in relationships. They worry about you and try to make suggestions on where to go to meet a new partner. You are getting your self together, taking up some new interests, maybe getting fit again. But you are not quite ready for a full on relationship.
Dating isn’t always about the destination. It’s also about what you learn about yourself and about people along the way. It’s about the experiences you have. Some of them will be funny, terrible or life-changing. And it’s important to know that you are on the right path and taking steps to achieve your dating and relationship goals.
Dr Wayne Dyer says “Remember that you get what you think about, whether you want it or not.” So if you’re sure that this is an unfriendly universe, you’ll look for examples to support this point of view. You’ll anticipate people attempting to cheat, judge, take advantage of, and otherwise harm you. You’ll blame the antagonistic, inhospitable cosmos for not cooperating with you in the fulfilment of your desires. You’ll point the finger at belligerent folks and bad luck for the kind of world we all live in. Since this worldview trickles down into every thought you have, you become a person persistently looking for occasions to be offended, and therefore in possession of a whole slew of excuses.”
Wayne’s favourite affirmation when feeling stuck or out of sorts is: “Whatever I need is already here, and it is all for my highest good.” Jot this down and post it conspicuously throughout your home, on the dashboard of your car, at your office, on your microwave oven, and even in front of your toilet! Remind yourself: I live in a friendly universe that will support any thing or desire that is aligned with the universal Source of all. Such a stance will be a giant step toward living an Excuses Begone! life.
If you’re not up to dating yet, just enjoy meeting friends and doing some of the things that you enjoy. Take some time to get your mojo back. Our A Table for Six small group dinners are a great way to meet other singles and find out who you are in a single world.
And if you want to be irresistibly attractive, be confident, be real and be yourself.
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