Stop cheating yourself out of love
âA year from now you may wish you had started todayâ
Today you woke up with the desire to finally make a change in your social and dating life. You felt motivated, inspired and ready to take the first step.
You decided to take yourself out to where you could meet some likely singles for a new relationship.
Suddenly you found out that things seem a bit more complicated, confusing and unfeasible.
You start to realise that it may not be easy or fast to meet people you relate to, have the same values as you, or want the same commitment in a relationship.
Eventually, you arrive at the point when you donât feel like âconquering your dating lifeâ today. However, you are sure that youâll be ready to nail it in a while. Some day soon you will sort it out. Just not todayâŠ
Sound familiar?
Committing to big goals is hard and itâs no wonder why. Putting off decisions to take a situation in hand is a common frailty of the human condition.
We are all bad at committing to the activities that require major, effort time and talent.
When it is hard to see the finish line, our desire to take action gradually vanishes. Then, procrastination comes into play.
Embrace the truth. You can achieve anything you desire. The only thing that is stopping you is your reluctance, and fear of failure. And, the major obstacle is the tendency to procrastinate.
Do you have a goal to meet genuine singles who would like a long term relationship?
Iâm sure you have a goal to meet interesting, inquiring, engaging single people.
However, just like millions of people, you decide it is too hard and put off doing anything about it. You postpone the beginning till âsomedayâ trying to convince yourself that there will be a better time. The weather will be better. I will have finished my studies. My children will have left home.
For many people, later often means never.
There is no doubt, you might still get there one day. However, itâs going to happen much later. The secret to meeting your new friends and partner is ridiculously simple: start now.
Itâs ok to be a little slow. Because being slow is better then being stagnant. Take a look back and think how much of your precious time you have wasted over the last few years by not taking some action.
Now think how much different your life could be now if you hadnât been procrastinating, having negative thoughts, complaining to our friends and family and feeling sorry for yourself.
Stop cheating yourself now. There will never be a better time to start. The best time is now.
Here is a powerful quote by Karen Lamb.
âA year from now you may wish you had started todayâ
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Margaret Newitt
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