You’re out of practise

Most of you love me, but every now and again one of you hate me. It’s true! Because I offer a service to singles, I am sometimes coming into contact with people who are at different stages in their lives when it comes to relationships. They’ve had a variety of experiences in their lives, and

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It’s a famous question and it’s asked often

It’s a famous question and it’s asked often. “What sort of people will I meet at dinner?” That’s exactly the same I question I would ask if I was inquiring about becoming a member of a Singles group! What exactly is it that they are looking for? We all know there’s plenty of singles out

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Are you prioritising your dating life?

What is the most important area of your life? Is your love life as important as watching your favourite show on TV or your 40-50 hour a week job? Sometimes I think it must not be. I know you’re busy and have your priorities. But if you were at the end of your life and

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Meet our 11 out of 10’s at dinner

I received an email from a lady this week. She is attractive, focused on her career and has good friends and family. Patricia (not real name) has been attracting men who are either boring intellectuals or smooth talkers with film star looks. She has big dreams but was ready to give up on finding her

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Millions of people have happy relationships- why shouldn’t you?

If you have been single for a while, perhaps you have registered on an online dating site. Or maybe you have been out with your girlfriends or mates hoping to meet someone. You got excited at first when you received a lot of messages on the online site. You even met a few people for

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Men and women want the same closeness in a relationship-so why is it often lost?

Last week I wrote about how men and women are wired differently and how fear and shame can cause a loving close relationship to become disconnected. This interesting information is from a book called “Why women talk and men walk” by Patricia Love and Steven Stosny. Research and clinical experiences show that men and women clearly

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Avoid disappointment and heartache in your next relationship

Quite a few people have commented to me that they found my article late last year “How important to a man is a woman? very interesting. So here is some more of the relevant information I found so interesting myself in the book. This book sheds some light on how we break the connection we have

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Create your own results

I have a single friend who watches too many current affairs TV shows. She talks a lot about how it’s so difficult to meet a partner today. Even talks about how people are being conned by unscrupulous people who pretend to be something they are not and take unsuspecting single’s money. Her whole attitude oozes,

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Another good news story from A Table for Six

Here’s another good news story from our A Table for Six dinners. S told me she had dated a lot in her 20’s and felt there were plenty of guys to choose from. She settled down and married and was in her marriage for 20 odd years until it broke up for various reasons. She

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Opposites attract or similar perspective successful long term relationship?

We’ve all heard the saying “opposites attract”. It has always been an interesting one because we all know long term happy couples who seem to be opposites and others who seem to be very much alike. Well a report I have read in a phychology magazine does throw some light on the subject. According to

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